foreach ($pending_array as $data) {
            $fp['friend_id']       = $data['you'];
            $fp['friendname']      = $swUserHandler->getName($data['you']);
            $fp['avatar']          = $swUserHandler->gravatar($data['you']);
            $fp['avatar_link']     = $swUserHandler->getAvatarLink($data['you'], $fp['avatar']);