def follow!(other_account, reblogs: nil, notify: nil, languages: nil, uri: nil, rate_limit: false, bypass_limit: false)
    rel = active_relationships.create_with(show_reblogs: reblogs.nil? ? true : reblogs, notify: notify.nil? ? false : notify, languages: languages, uri: uri, rate_limit: rate_limit, bypass_follow_limit: bypass_limit)
                              .find_or_create_by!(target_account: other_account)

    rel.show_reblogs = reblogs   unless reblogs.nil?