$dms = DirectMessage::select('id', 'type', 'to_id', 'from_id', 'id', 'status_id', 'is_hidden', 'meta', 'created_at', 'read_at')
                ->whereToId($profile)
                ->with(['author','status'])
                ->whereIsHidden(false)
                ->when($page, function($q, $page) {